Old  September 26th, 2011, 5:15pm     #1
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We need to teach our daughters to ...
We need to teach our daughters todistinguish between a man who flatters her and a man who compliments her ...

a man who spends money on her and a man who invests in her ...

a man who views her as property and a man who views her properly ...

a man who lusts after her and a man who loves her ...

a man who believes he is God's gift to women and a man who remembers a woman was God's gift to man.

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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 5:20pm     #2
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Well said and we also need to teach our sons.

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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 5:30pm     #3
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Well said and we also need to teach our sons.
Oh, I didn't write it. I'm just talented with C&P.
Got it from a friend who has a daughter, but I don't know if she wrote it.
Something to focus on, for those with girls.

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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 5:37pm     #4
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I'll show that to my Daughter..

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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 5:39pm     #5
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There should also be a primer on how to raise men who appreciate responsible self able women

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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 6:05pm     #6
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Well said and I think we got a very good son-in-law!
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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 8:06pm     #7
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Our daughters are learning those very things in the shining example of their beloved Father...Thank you for sharing.
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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 8:17pm     #8
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Umm... yeah, I want both love AND lust. Please.
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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 8:31pm     #9
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We need to teach our daughters that a man (or whatever) is great to have around, but it's not a defining thing - we need to teach our daughters that they, by and of themselves, have great value.

Not having a daughter, I chose to teach my son. His wife is a lucky woman.
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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 9:12pm     #10
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Thank you OP well said and I agree!
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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 9:24pm     #11
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Umm... yeah, I want both love AND lust. Please.
Amen!

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  Old  September 26th, 2011, 9:40pm     #12
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Absolutely beautiful, Dot!! Thanks for posting!!

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  Old  September 28th, 2011, 11:32am     #13
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I like it!

I always told my girls that the secret to a good relationship was the 3 "L"s.

You must LIKE each other completely.
You must LOVE each other completely
And You must LUST after each other completely.

My husband is my best friend, we would hang out together even if we weren't married. He loves me with his whole heart and I have no doubts about that, the feeling is mutual. And after 20 years together we still are in lust with each other. (lol just ask my daughters... they think playing grab-assy in the store aisles is way to much PDA for parents lol)

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