PDA

View Full Version : My 5 yr old DD went to ER --> My 8 yr old DS is a Hero


Leona100K
February 6th, 2005, 6:13pm
I had a HORRIBLE time last wednesday ... I've been meaning to come on here and tell my story, but we've been so busy ... Here it is ... if you have a weak stomache you might not want to read any further ...

Wednesday I'm folding my clothes in the laundry room and my 5 yr old DD comes to me and asks if she can put her candy is this glass gobblet she was holding .. I told her not to, and to get something plastic to put her candy in ...

She turned around to take the glass back and tripped over a rug in the kitchen, I heard the glass shatter and ran to her and asked her if she was okay .. she replied yes, but when I picked her up and turned her around I saw TONS of blood squirting all over ...

Her forehead had hit the glass on her way down, but she didnt' realize it until she saw all the blood ... I did the ONE thing I shouldn't do .. I paniced and screamed .... I grabbed the closest thing to me which happened to be a dirty dusting rag, and placed it on her forehead .. it looked so awful .. I was so upset because it looked so bad hanging open like it was ...

My 8 yr old son came running when he heard me scream ... he saw what looked like a masacre had happened in the kitchen and quickly and sobbingly knelt down to his little sister and put his hands on the rag and pressed down. He watches a lot of animal rescue and 911 shows because he has aspirations of being a Veterenarian (spelling?) and suprisingly he knew to put pressure on her wound to help the blood to stop.

I picked my DD up and put her in the backseat ... my son quickly followed and knelt down on his knees on the backseat towards his sister and continued to press down on the rag to stop the bleeding ... my DD was in shock so she didn't move a lot, and didn't say much except once or twice that it hurt ... but my son remained strong, although weaping he continuted to offer support to his sister, which made me cry even harder because at the same time I was frantic about her, I was so proud of him ...

I started to panic and I got so upset that I couldn't remember where the hospital was so I drove to my Dh's work and picked him up .. he drove the rest of the way (which wasnt' far thank God) ... and still my son sat back there with his sister, holding down firmly on her wound, talking to her and telling her it will be okay, weeping and praying for her .. I heard him cry out "oh God, touch my sister and help her to be okay" ....

we got to the hospital and they took her in right away .. it was an awful cut, but thank God it wasn't as bad as it seemed in the kitchen ... it is almost in her hairline ... it was VERY deep and exposed but the doctor did a good job sewing her up .. the scar looks like it will be minimal ....

I kept her home from school on Thursday and Friday ... she's feeling MUCH better today .. Poor baby .... what a horrible thing to go through .. i told her she is to NEVER drink out of glass again .. . only plastic ... I can't get that image out of my head ... her in the kitchen ... It keeps me up at night ...

and I'm so proud of my Son .... he was such a champ ... he was my little Hero .. I called him SuperMan for the rest of the day ... he did such a good job, and for his age ... 8 years old .. he showed a lot of intelligence and bravery ... I'm so thankful for him ...

fromtheheart66
February 6th, 2005, 6:18pm
Isnt it amazing that they can keep their head about them. I would have did what u did and screamed on instinct. He deserves a special treat for being a little hero!

Sabra505
February 6th, 2005, 6:20pm
OMG, I'm crying - what an ordeal for you all - but your son is such a little hero!
Hugs to you all, and a great big attaboy for your special little guy and a big
hugs for your daughter (and you)!

sweepmama
February 6th, 2005, 6:22pm
Poor baby!!! I haven't had that kind of a scare yet with my 4 yr old. I can't imagine how scared you must have been. I'm proud of your son too. What a guy!!!! I hope your little gal is feeling better. Big hugs for her and you and your hero!!!

ANGEL
February 6th, 2005, 6:25pm
Am glad your daughter is fine. Know you are proud of your son for the way he handled things with his sister. The head is the worst for cuts they bleed the most which is always scary.

:halo:

Dottie
February 6th, 2005, 6:27pm
:gvibes: I'm glad it wasn't worse , but like you I would have panicked. Kids are amazing. Tell your son we think he is a hero also. :faces:

drewnancy
February 6th, 2005, 6:29pm
What a wonderful little guy you've got there!

bettyboop21214
February 6th, 2005, 6:30pm
O'K you made me cry. The strength of children amazes me. Your son is so special. You should call your local fire/police department so they can give him an award, he surely deserves one. So glad that your daughter is feeling better too. Pat yourself on the back, you and your husband are doing a great job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sweepsfreak
February 6th, 2005, 6:34pm
You made me cry, also. Hugs to your babies.

melonhed
February 6th, 2005, 6:40pm
What a kid. I hope you have told your son how truly proud of him you are. To keep his cool like that and remember to be soothing and comforting to his sis is amazing. Something special is in order for your kiddo, maybe you and hubby can have a "hero" day or something for him. Let him pick the menu, movies, activities, get him a card......really convey how special he is.

Leona100K
February 6th, 2005, 6:43pm
I keep crying too ... at odd times at that .... throughout the day(s) I look at my son and start crying all over and hugging him .. luckily he's used to me leaching on him and he's patient with me ... :laugh:

I would post a picture of my DD tomorrow when she's awake if it wouldn't gross anyone out too much ... it looks much better now that it's all stitched up .. I start my post office traning tomorrow so I wont be able to post her picture until around 4 or 5 p.m. tomorrow .. if I post it you guys can see what I went through .. I was SO thankful to God that it wasn't her eye .. or some other place on her face that would stick out a lot ...

agcshort
February 6th, 2005, 8:04pm
Oh my gosh how scary for you all!!! I'm so glad your DD is okay...your DS is so brave!! :)

twilightspirits
February 6th, 2005, 9:34pm
I'm so glad she's not hurt badly. It sounds like they were both very brave! What an amazing little boy. :gvibes:

rojo13864
February 6th, 2005, 11:32pm
What a scary post. Things can happen so quickly, when you least expect it. I would have screamed too. So glad to hear it wasn't worse. What a fine, brave son you have to support (know what to do ) his sister like that! Have to say both children sound so brave and wonderful. Heaving a huge sigh of relief that it wasn't as bad as it looked. :grouphug: Hope your daughter is feeling a much better now!

tommy
February 6th, 2005, 11:38pm
i am really sorry to hear about your daughters accident hopefully she will recover and be fine :gvibes:

as far as your young lad is concerned he is my hero for doing such a fantastic job

god bless your young lad :smile9:

AbstractRose
February 7th, 2005, 12:18am
:grouphug: WOW Leona!!! What an adventure! So glad that everyone is going to be OK. :grouphug:

WLAllen219
February 7th, 2005, 6:59am
OK, my stomach was fine till I read this. It's fip-floppin now so I can only imagine how you felt. Sounds like your little guy has emergency medicine in his future. What a quick thinker! I hope your DD is doing better and that scar is minimal.

I hate to put advice in here, but just wanted to ck if a plastic surgeon sutured her up. ERs should call in a plastic surgeon whenever there is a visible area that could scar. Especially on a young girls face. I know this because my BIL is a plastic surgeon. If not, you may want to take her to see one, soon. I hope it's all not necessary and that they had a plastic surgeon take care of her.

Leona100K
February 10th, 2005, 4:24pm
Sorry it has taken so long to get a photo of Kayla on here .. I stated a few days ago that I'd put one on the next day, but I got busy .. but a good busy! I've been "training" at the post office and gettin' paid for it! :cheer7:

anyhow .. thank you so much all of you for the concern and well wishes .. I let my son read all the nice things you guys said about him ... he LOVED it .. it's one thing to have Mommy call you a Hero, but it's something else when someone else calls you a Hero!

Here's a photo of kayla's stitches ... hope I'm not grossing anyone out too much .. She is MUCH better and definately on the mend .. but she's scared to run or have you touch her forehead ... she is to have her stitches out tomorrow or saturday ... the doc said 7-10 days ... so I guess she could get them out tonight, but she's afraid .. so we'll give her an extra day or two ...

and No, I don't think it was a plastic surgeon who sewed her up .. I believe it was the doctor that was "on call" at the ER that night ... but he was nice, and gentle ...

Leona100K
February 10th, 2005, 4:26pm
you might have to open the picture up in a seperate window to get a closer look ... UGH .. that is if you want to!

Txsweeper
February 10th, 2005, 4:30pm
Poor baby!!! I hate when babies get hurt, breaks my heart. Your son is definitely a hero!! Hope Kayla is back to 100% real soon.

SeaAngel
February 13th, 2005, 12:52am
Oh my, how scary! What a wonderful little guy you have there. Your Kayla will be in my prayers for a quick and low pain recovery. :hugs: